Where Desire Meets Intention


Intentionally curated, women-led experiences for conscious connection and erotic play

Our next gathering: Insatiable Sayulita Vol. 3 | May 7-10th, 2026

About Insatiables

Welcome to Insatiable Scarlets, where we curate sensual events for couples, single men, and single women. Our gatherings prioritize comfort and safety, fostering an environment where participants can freely express themselves and revel in authentic pleasure. Join our exclusive community filled with beautiful souls seeking erotic connections. Don't miss out on our unforgettable experiences.

We are like-minded, beautiful, and sexy individuals aged 25 to 50, with a wide variety of ethnic and cultural backgrounds. We are single, married, and in open, polyamorous, and casual relationships. Our participants include Burners, artists, kink enthusiasts, leaders, medical professionals, lawyers, travelers, healers, mothers, fathers, entrepreneurs, surfers, dancers, nature lovers, entertainment professionals, musicians, photographers, architects, nomads, and more.

Code of Conduct

All guests are required to participate in a pre-event 1 hour orientation Zoom meeting to ensure there is a clear understanding of the rules and expectations. This is mandatory for attendance at our events.

Violations of our rules are grounds for permanent removal without refund or re-entry.

Consent

Overcommunicate - discuss boundaries with your partner or date. Discuss boundaries with new play partners. Don’t make assumptions. Enthusiastic yes - or it’s a no. Don’t question it or take things personally.

Personal Responsibility

Know your limit. Intoxication is fun but, not always sexy. We need to be conscious of how consent is given and taken away.

Discretion

No phones, pictures, or videos are allowed at our events. Discretion and confidentiality are of the utmost importance to respect our members.

Respect

Respect yourself, respect others, and respect the spaces that we use to play.

Health & Safety

Every member must submit an up-to-date STI test within the past three months. These are safe sex events, condom usage is encouraged and provided.

Inclusivity

This is an inclusive, judgment-free experience. We do not discriminate based on race, gender, sexual orientation, socioeconomic status, or religion.

Our next event:

Insatiables Sayulita Vol. 3

May 7 - May 10, 2026  | Sayulita, Mexico

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  • “As a first timer, I was obviously curious and excited but I was also very nervous. What will happen? Will it be too much? Will I feel objectified or rejected? Those insecurities and nervousness melted away very quickly. The way the weekend was masterfully curated and facilitated was absolutely perfect. I was blown away by the softness and sensuality. My eyes and soul were opened to so many possibilities. I would attend another Insatiable Scarlets event in a heartbeat. This is not a sex party, it’s a sex retreat.”

    —Lia from Mexico shared this after her first experience with us

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  • "Honestly, I was a little nervous showing up to my first play party, but I was surprised by how much of the night was just amazing, deep conversation. The bonding and connecting felt just as important as any sexual engagement, which wasn't something I expected. I never felt pressured at all because consent was clearly a key part of every single interaction. That actually made me feel super safe to just hang out, watch, and socialize without participating in any activities. I had an absolute blast just being in that energy and connecting with everyone. I actually ended up going out on dates with three different individuals I met at the event, and I keep in touch with a fair amount of the people I connected with months later!

    —Anonymous Women

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  • “From the moment of booking my interview, the process was steeped in integrity and safety. As a woman, to be involved in an event where safety, boundaries, and the speaking of desires are the baseline meant I got to truly lean into my edges knowing I was surrounded by people who would hold, care, and celebrate me. What I witnessed and experienced inside of this container of two nights of desire, witnessing, and participation is indescribable. It was so much more than a god damn sex party. None of this would have happened without the care and integrity of how the space was curated”

    —Melissa, Puerto Vallartra, Mexico

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  • "As a single woman I have more invites to play parties than I can count, but had never felt comfortable with any. My first party with Insatiables exceeded ALL my expectations, not just for sexy reasons but for the awesome people I met and the sense of community they foster. The space and people are curated so well, I am more than comfortable going solo, which as a woman is not the usual at these events. This is not your average play community, and especially for curious women, it's an amazing group to come knowing you'll be safe, comfortable, and supported throughout the experience! If you've let your lack of play partner keep you from curiosities, this is an amazing place to dip your toes..."

    Vicki from Los Angeles

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  • "What a life-changing experience. I feel like a more free, loving, and bold person now that I've attended an Insatiable Scarletts event. From the interview process to the Welcome Zoom call, to the first interactions with beautiful, soulful women and finally to a comforting hot tub session with all my new friends at the end of the event, this 2-night experience was one I will never forget. Even when I had moments of being in my head or freezing up at the event, both men and women would lovingly give me the comfort I needed without even knowing what was going on in my mind. There were first-timers I bonded with, and experienced veterans I learned from. So many moments of serendipity, sensuality, sexuality, and overall liberation. I massaged and pleased women, they massaged and pleased me. Fantasies were fulfilled all around. Everything was safe and consensual. This has opened a portal for me and how I interact with life. Thank you to the hosts and to the incredible guests that I am now connected with for years to come. I highly recommend this event to any beginner. Be bold. Be insatiable."

    Male, Los Angeles, CA

    Beginner, first-timer

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  • “My first Insatiable experience in 2019 was also my first play party, and it left an indelible memory. The host, immediately made me feel welcome and safe upon my arrival, and there were so many intelligent, funny, and attractive people to get to know! I will be forever grateful to Insatiable and for attending this party as that is where I met my life partner - we had instant chemistry! I highly recommend attending an Insatiable event in the future - it just might change your life for the better like it did mine!”

    32 year old female, LA

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  • "I am a 32 year old woman who has explored a wide variety of play parties across Los Angeles over the years. I can say—without hesitation—that Insatiable Scarlets stands out as the gold standard. It’s not just another sex party—it’s a thoughtfully curated experience that fosters deep connection, radical authenticity, true community, and of course - PLEASURE. What makes Insatiable so special is the unmatched level of care and intention that the hosts pours into every single detail. The interview and orientation process ensures that each event is filled with the kindest, most respectful, and emotionally intelligent humans I’ve ever had the pleasure of meeting in these spaces. It’s no wonder I’ve made lifelong friends here—many with benefits, some without—but all deeply meaningful. The space is incredibly safe and welcoming, especially for women. There's a palpable sense of mutual respect and shared values that allows everyone to fully relax, express, and explore. Attending a 3-day, 50-person sextravaganza in Mexico, surrounded by open-hearted, pleasure-positive beings was not on my life bingo card, but I feel beyond blessed to have been included in this magical community. Insatiable Scarlets isn’t just a sex party—it’s Portal into your wildest dreams. If you're lucky enough to be invited in, say hell yes.New List Item

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  • "The event was highly curated - I liked that people were high quality, respectful and fun. The space was gorgeous! The attention to detail was the standout thing for me from the hosts - hosting, sending reminders, setting down ground rules, responding to last minute messages, even catering to small requests like needing help with a tampon, checking in to see if everyone’s feeling ok - they had it all covered, and that’s what set it apart from other events I’ve been to."New List Item

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Our Mission Statement

Insatiable Scarlets is a women-led organization dedicated to creating safe, curated, and transformative sexual experiences. Our mission is to evoke liberation, empowerment, and deep human connection through environments where intimacy is honored as one of the highest forms of love. We maintain a rigorous code of conduct to ensure that every guest feels protected and free. We also follow a strict vetting process to uphold this standard and to create spaces where everyone can feel desired. We welcome and represent all women, from kinky to curious, bold to shy, experienced to first timer. We believe that sensual, intimate, and sexual experiences can elevate individuals and strengthen community, and we design every event to embody that truth.

While there is a financial exchange for the tremendous effort, time, and care we put into these experiences, any profit is simply a means to support and compensate the curators who make these events possible. It is never the driving force. Our true purpose is to create extraordinary, meaningful, and empowering experiences for our community.

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Our Values

  • ✺ Safety First

    We uphold the highest standards of consent, integrity, and personal responsibility.

  • ♀ Women-Centered

    We prioritize women’s comfort, pleasure, and empowerment in every decision.

  • ∞ Curated Intimacy

    We design intentional, elevated experiences that honor desire, sensuality, and human connection.

  • △ Liberation and Expression

    We create spaces where people feel free to explore, express, and embody their authentic sexuality.

  • ☉ Integrity in Conduct

    Our community is built on accountability, honesty, and respect for ourselves and others.

  • ✣ Deep Connection

    We believe intimacy is a sacred expression of love, emotional, sensual, and sexual.

  • ◎ Inclusive Community

    We welcome diverse identities and experiences while maintaining strict vetting to ensure alignment.

  • ⊞ Confidentiality and Discretion

    Privacy is paramount. What happens at Insatiable stays at Insatiable. 

Frequently Asked Questions

  • Yes. Many Insatiable guests are new to curated, sex-positive environments. Our experiences are intentionally structured, consent-first, and women-led, with clear expectations and no pressure to participate sexually. What matters most is curiosity, respect, and self-awareness, not prior experience. Guests are vetted in advance, supported throughout the experience, and always encouraged to move at their own pace.

  • You can expect a thoughtfully curated, women-led experience that prioritizes consent, emotional safety, and intentional connection. Insatiable gatherings are structured with clear agreements and a defined flow, and guests may be exposed to sexual or intimate activity happening around them whether or not they choose to participate. There is never pressure to engage sexually. Guests are encouraged to honor their boundaries, communicate openly, and move at a pace that feels aligned and respectful to themselves and others.

  • No. Participation in any sexual or intimate activity is always optional. You may choose to observe with consent, connect socially, or simply be present without engaging sexually. Consent is explicit and ongoing, and choosing not to participate is fully respected at all times.

  • All guests go through a vetting process prior to attending, which includes an interview to assess alignment with our values, consent culture, and expectations. Selection is also based on overall vibe and group chemistry, with the intention of creating a guest mix where everyone feels desired and comfortable. We consider readiness, communication, and presence, and we curate each group thoughtfully to support a connected and aligned experience.

  • To request an invitation, fill out the form on our website with accurate information and valid contact details. This allows us to follow up, schedule an interview if appropriate, and ensure clear communication throughout the process.

  • Insatiable creates hand-curated experiences where every detail is thoughtfully considered from the perspective of the solo woman. From guest selection to structure and flow, we prioritize environments where women feel safe, comfortable, and genuinely desired. This level of intention allows for deeper connection, trust, and ease, setting Insatiable apart from more open or volume-driven events.

  • The atmosphere is sensual, warm, and intentionally designed. We set the space with sexy lighting and layout, plenty of room for play, and a dedicated cuddle-only and non-playing zone for connection. Healthy snacks, non-alcoholic beverages, and limited alcohol are always provided. Every detail is thoughtfully considered to support comfort, desire, and ease.escription

  • Insatiable is not for people who are closed-minded, disrespectful, or seeking purely transactional sexual experiences. It is also not for those who do not prioritize consent, emotional safety, safer sex practices, or the wellbeing of women in the space. If someone is unwilling to communicate, take responsibility for their impact, or honor boundaries, this is not the right environment for them.

  • Women’s tickets are intentionally priced lower as part of our commitment to equity, accessibility, and a women-led container. Women globally continue to earn less than men on average, and we aim to reduce financial barriers while prioritizing women’s presence, comfort, and leadership within the experience.

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